When I graduated college, I had already been married for a year. My husband at that time also graduated when I did – right into a major recession.We knew getting that first job after graduating college could take a while. We also knew we’d probably have to relocate to maximize our chances of finding something.So we made a pact that we’d be flexible in our life and careers. We agreed to move close to wherever the first good job showed up, no matter which one of us got it. My being a woman, and how that would affect my career, never entered my mind.